Single Men Vs. Committed Men


Single men lead different lifestyles compared to men that

are committed to one woman. When a guy is single, he

might wish he had a girlfriend. When that same guy finds a

girlfriend, he might want to be single again. This is a strange

cycle that many young men go through for many years.



Although there are many differences between these two

lifestyles, one similarity is apparent. That is the transition

from one lifestyle to the other. The transition is often very

difficult. These transitions often cause many aspects of a

man’s life to change. This means that there are many

contrasts when you compare lifestyles of single men and

men in a relationship with one woman.



A guy may enjoy or hate living his life single. Often times a

single lifestyle consists of merely hanging out with guys and

girls just as friends, and having fun. If a guy really enjoys

partying and getting a little crazy on the weekends, this is

what he will do when he is single. Single men usually do

and say whatever they want to, and don’t worry about

what others may think about them. He just wants to be with

his buddies and have a good time.



Sometimes single men will not be seeking potential

girlfriends. Other times he will be on the lookout for girls he

is interested in. In either case, girls will be on his mind. For

that guy who is not looking for a relationship, he will not

mind not seeing any girls for a period of time. A guy who is

looking for a commitment will want to go to the clubs and

other spots where he can meet some women.



A man with a girlfriend will enjoy her company all the time.

He will not desire to see his buddies as much as he used to.

He won’t think about all of the girls he could meet at a

party where he could be. Overtime, the guy with a girlfriend

will spend less and less time with friends. He will

concentrate more of his time on his partner, trying to make

the relationship work out as best as it can.



The period of time when a man is happy with his girlfriend

can be deceitful. This time of harmony between a man and

a woman may last for a lifetime, or just a few days.

Sometimes he will start to think about his buddies and

parties, and feel that his girl is holding him back. This is a

sign that the relationship will not last much longer, and many

hearts can be broken because of these feelings. That is just

the way the cycle goes and there is nothing he can do about

it.



A single guy will not worry about as many things as a guy

with a girlfriend. The single man may not worry about how

he looks or acts sometimes. He can keep his house messy,

because there is no woman to worry about. Unless he is

attempting to get a girlfriend, he will live the way he feels

most comfortable.



It is a whole different story when a girl comes into a man’s

life. He will start to worry about how she is doing. He will

start to be on time for dates and appointments he makes.

When a woman comes into a man’s life, she will bring a

sense of responsibility to that man with her. Overnight his

house will look neat, his car will be clean, and he will start

to worry about his appearance. Sometimes it will seem like

he has made many changes overnight, and he may look like

a different man.



Responsibility is a must when a man has a girl. If he cannot

keep his end of the deal, the relationship will not last. A

man cannot spend more time with his buddies than his

girlfriend, and expect to keep her happy. Men can’t have

the lifestyle of a single man and keep a girlfriend at the

same time. This will leave him feeling dissatisfied with

himself, and his girlfriend.



Many men will actually crave to have both lifestyles. They

are so different from each other that it cannot be possible.

Sometimes having a girlfriend will change a man’s life

drastically. A man may not always be happy with the way

he is living at the time. Not all relationships can last forever,

as many men find out. When examining a man over a

period of time, it will be easy to spot the contrasts in his

lifestyle from being single to having a girlfriend.