Sometimes girls and boys seem to avoid the company of one another, but

finally everyone find something common in each other and fall in love at

least once. Actually You are just afraid of making serious relationship,

because You do not know what the girl thinks and feels about you. In

general the first time is always more complex. The men are so confused

about what women think about them that it can create some obsessions. It

can lower Your self-esteem. Do not let it happen!

Despite of the difficulties it is exciting and anxious process. It will be

hard to get someone's love. In return You will feel like a bird flying,

everything will sing around and your heart will jump inside when You see

that You have taken a liking to her. How do You see that!? She will smile,

laugh after every your silly joke and hesitate to look into your eyes. If

she will not, she is not fallen in love. Let's imagine the calling to

someone for the first date.

Probably you are nervous and afraid of her refusal. Who makes the first

step have to be brave and known that everybody have to do it some day. You

have to know the Estonian proverb, "The brave beginning is a half of

victory". For Your better feeling You may invent some reason for calling.

For example ask something about a homework, but do not seem to her as a

foolish. First of all you have to insist in your mind that you are like

every other boy. Everyone have something interesting and attractive which

can put the girls to lose their heads. Perhaps You are funny speaker or

good listener. In the last case You have to give many questions to get her

meet with You. You have to realize your best sides of character and use

them in calling. Do not be selfish, at least in the first time. Next, You

have to be prepared to lose - do not except your failure and do not give up

after it. People are learning from mistakes. Now let's go to call.

Oh, Your voice and the style of communicating have to be something

different from talking with friends! Do not use a foul language. First of

all You have to be very polite in communicating with her parents in the

case they take a phone. You could introduce yourself and ask for her with

the official and calm voice, "Good afternoon, I am Bobby Dolt and I would

like to speak with Ann Smith. Is she home at home now?". You have a time to

relax and forget about all Your weaknesses. Now She probably comes. It will

be better if You create the image of ladies' man and chatty boy and mix

their a little bit sexual appetite. But do not overstrain with that stuff.

Now she is saying, "Helllooo" and You will show the manliness and other

skills You have learned. Your voice must be soft, easygoing, but dynamic.

It means not boring. Hey, If You feel yourself in a right way forget about

Your homework! Let Your inspiration to fly.

Do not disturb her for a few hours. Be in short. You just have to invite

her somewhere. Please do not make some terrible noises like in car crush or

the water falling in bathroom. In the case You cannot exist without them

You can sing like birds do. Do not say her such things like, "What the hell

are You doing their? Or What a horrible voice You have by phone!". I remain

You that You had a goal to create some friendship. Follow my advises and

You can get Cindy Crawford to Your callers.

If You are good reader and smart boy You have to go through it and You

might see her next time in the theater, cinema or night club. You will be

well done if during the next meeting she will be merry and kind with You.

Your relationships depend mostly on Your communication in the first few

weeks. It does not mean that later You can turn into a rude imp. Actually

all people have to relate toward each other in a polite manner and do not

hold anger in their hearts. Always take a stand to others like You want

them to attitude toward You.